Can I learn to be cool – even though I am garrulous, swotty and wear no-show socks?

The article discusses the concept of coolness and how it has evolved over time. The author, who is not very cool according to their own admission, interviews Delaney, a 32-year-old stylist and creative consultant at EYC, who claims that being cool is about being an individual and doing your own thing. She argues that cool people are those who can make themselves relevant and exciting, rather than simply trying to fit into a particular mold.

The article also mentions Professor Dinerstein, who has spent years studying the concept of coolness and has written extensively on the subject. He argues that being cool is not just about external appearances, but also about internal qualities such as confidence and authenticity.

Throughout the article, the author reflects on their own lack of coolness and how they struggle to fit in with certain groups or trends. They admit to wearing head-to-toe Uniqlo, which they know is not very cool, and try to impress Delaney by pretending to be more fashionable than they actually are.

Despite their efforts, the author does not feel like they are cool, and Professor Dinerstein tells them that he can't say for sure whether they are cool or not. However, he does offer some words of encouragement, telling the author that they "could be" cool.

Overall, the article is a humorous and thought-provoking exploration of the concept of coolness and how it can be both elusive and subjective.
 
I feel like being cool is so overrated 😒. I mean, Delaney's idea that you just gotta be an individual and do your own thing sounds great in theory, but let's be real, it's not always easy to find yourself in a sea of sameness 🤷‍♀️. And what even does "being cool" mean anymore? Is it about having the right clothes or being on the latest trends? I personally think it's more about finding what makes you unique and embracing that, but at the same time, being authentic and confident.

I love how Professor Dinerstein talks about internal qualities of coolness 🤓. Like, who cares if you're wearing last season's fashion if you own it with confidence? 😎 The article made me realize that I don't even need to try to be cool, I just need to be myself and maybe people will like me for who I am 💕. But at the same time, I do wish being cool wasn't so subjective... sometimes I feel like I'm stuck in a never-ending loop of trying to fit in 🔄.
 
I mean come on... being cool is overrated 🤷‍♂️. It's just a bunch of people trying to fit in with the crowd, but what's the point? I'd rather be me, even if that means wearing Uniqlo head-to-toe lol 😂. Delaney's whole thing about making yourself relevant and exciting sounds like a lot of work, man. Can't you just chill and be yourself? And honestly, Professor Dinerstein's definition of coolness is so vague... confidence and authenticity? Who comes up with this stuff? 🤔. I think being cool is just a state of mind, but it's not always easy to achieve. Maybe the author just needs to work on their "cool" more 😅.
 
I'm low-key fascinated by how our notion of 'cool' has shifted over the years 🤔💡. It's like, we used to think being 'cool' meant following some arbitrary trend or dress code, but now it's all about embracing your uniqueness and owning that individuality 💁‍♀️👕. Delaney makes some solid points about making yourself relevant and exciting – I mean, who hasn't struggled with feeling like they don't fit in? 😂

But at the same time, Prof Dinerstein's take on coolness being rooted in internal qualities like confidence and authenticity really resonates with me 🙌. It's easy to get caught up in trying to present this curated version of ourselves online, but ultimately, it's our true selves that should shine through 💖.

And can we talk about how ridiculous it is when we try to pretend to be someone we're not? 😂 I mean, I've been there too – wearing Uniqlo from head-to-toe (no shade, btw 😉) and trying to impress others with my non-existent fashion sense. It's funny, because Prof Dinerstein basically tells me I'm cool, but in a way that's more like 'you have the potential to be' 🤗. Maybe that's what we need to focus on – not trying to be someone else, but being our true selves and seeing where that takes us 🌟
 
Idk why ppl stress about being cool so much 🤷‍♂️... like Delaney said, just be urself & do what makes u happy, right? But at the same time, I feel like we're all just trying to keep up with each other's interests these days 📱. I mean, I'm over here jamming to old-school hip hop while everyone else is still listening to Billie Eilish 😎. Does that make me cool or am I just a relic of the past? 🤔
 
Ugh, I'm so over platforms thinking they know what's cool 🙄. Like, Delaney says being cool is about being individual and doing your own thing, but let's be real, it's not that easy to just "make yourself relevant and exciting" all the time 🤯. And don't even get me started on Professor Dinerstein saying you need internal qualities like confidence and authenticity... yeah, sure, sounds great, but what about when you're trying to figure out who you are and where you fit in? 🤔. I feel like these articles just perpetuate the idea that being cool is some kind of mystical force that only a select few possess 🔮. Meanwhile, I'm over here rocking my Uniqlo set (lol) and trying not to be too extra 💁‍♀️. Maybe being cool isn't even about it at all... 🤷‍♀️
 
omg i gotta try being more individual tho 😂👕 like delaney says we shouldnt be trying to fit into some mold thats so extra 🤷‍♂️ but at the same time im like what if im not good enough tho? 🤔 anyway just watched a vid on how to style your own face for fall and its literally changing my life 🔥👀 [link to style vid]
 
omg i feel like delaney, you know when ur doing ur own thing and ppl are all like wow u're so interesting? 🤩 that's what being cool is all about, not trying to fit in with everyone else. but at the same time, professor dinershteyn makes a good point too, like, if u don't believe in urself, how can anyone else see u as cool? 💁‍♀️
 
I gotta say, I'm loving this convo about coolness 🤔... but let's get real, what's up with people feeling pressure to conform to some certain standard? Like, Delaney says being cool is about doing your own thang, but where do you even start? It's hard enough figuring out who we are, let alone trying to present a perfect online persona 😒. And I'm not buying the whole 'confidence and authenticity' vibe from Professor Dinerstein... it sounds like just another way of telling people they're not cool enough 🙄. What if being cool is just about existing in a world that's constantly trying to tell you who you should be? 🌎
 
i mean, i think being cool is super subjective, you know? like, delaney's right that it's about being yourself and doing your own thing, but at the same time, professor dinerstein makes a point about confidence and authenticity being important too... idk, maybe it's like, both are true, but in different ways for different people? i feel like when i'm trying to fit into a certain vibe or trend, i just end up looking fake, you know? like, wearing head-to-toe uniqlo is not exactly my style lol... but hey, professor dinerstein says i "could be" cool, so maybe there's hope? 🤔😂
 
I'm loving this whole "coolness" conversation 🤩🔥 I mean, who doesn't want to feel like they're on top of their game, you know? But for real, Delaney's point about being individual and making yourself relevant is SO true 🔴️‍♀️. I think we get caught up trying to fit into these pre-made molds or following trends just to seem cool 🤷‍♂️.

And then there's Professor Dinerstein's take on it being more about internal qualities... that makes total sense 💡 Confidence and authenticity are everything when it comes to feeling like you're "cool" (or whatever term you want to use 😜). I'm definitely going to try to work on those things, even if it means embracing my Uniqlo wardrobe 🤣. It's all about finding your own style and rocking it, right? 💥
 
idk about this whole cool thing tho 🤷‍♂️ still feel like i dont fit in w/ any crowd or trend i mean what's up w/ trying to be all that? just be urself, ya know? @Delaney seems like a cool cat 💁‍♀️ but honestly i think it's way easier 2 say u r cool than actually being it 😂
 
omg i love this article!!! being cool is like soooo not about what people wear or where you hang out lol Delaney's vibe is everything! I'm more of a comfy uniqlo girl myself btw 😂 i think its so cool that Professor Dinerstein is trying to break the mold and talk about internal qualities too. we all know thats what makes us unique and special. personally im trying to be more confident in my own skin rn, it can't hurt right? 💖
 
OMG u guys 🤯 i'm literally dying right now! Delaney is like totally speaking my language 💖 she's all about being true to urself and not trying 2 fit in w/ some crew or trend 🙅‍♀️ i mean who doesn't wanna be seen as "cool" lol, but also can we talk about how hard it is 2 achieve that?! 😩 professor dinerstein is low-key my spirit animal tho 💪 he's all about internal qualities like confidence and authenticity... that's soooo real to me right now 🙌 i'm literally wearing head-to-toe uniqlo rn 👕👖 i know it's not cool, but it's comfy and that's what matters, right? 😂 anywayz i'm def feeling inspired 2 be more urself and not worry about wut other ppl think 💖
 
So I was reading this article about what's considered cool these days... 🤔 and honestly, I think being cool is kinda overrated? Like, we're all just trying to be ourselves, but society keeps telling us there's a certain way to do it and if we don't fit the mold, we're not cool. But isn't that just another label for something we already feel like we are or aren't?

I mean, I've got my own style, but do I really need validation from others to say I'm cool? 🤷‍♀️ And what's with all the pressure to keep up with trends? Can't we just be ourselves and not worry about what other people think? Professor Dinerstein says it's about internal qualities like confidence and authenticity... that makes sense, right?

But at the same time, I do feel a little left out when everyone else seems to know their stuff. Maybe being cool isn't something you're born with, but more of a mindset or attitude? 🤓 And if we all just started embracing our own quirks and styles, maybe that's what makes us truly cool.
 
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