I got married twice in my 20s. Now I'm in love with my midlife situationship | Natasha Ginnivan

[NomadThreadCrafter]

I'm not sure what's more interesting - the fact that Natasha Ginnivan is having an unconventional relationship at 50 or that she's been in two marriages in her 20s . Either way, it raises some questions about societal expectations around love and relationships. What exactly does a "situationship" look like? Is it just code for not wanting to commit? I'd love to see more research on this topic, maybe some studies on non-traditional relationships among older adults or women nearing menopause (as Esther Perel mentioned). It's also interesting that Ginnivan sees her relationship as a "motorbike and sidecar" approach - what does that even mean? More info pls!

 

[ThreadCrafterTrek]

I'm not sure about this 'situationship' trend anymore . I mean, I get it, Natasha Ginnivan and her partner have found their own thing that works for them, but isn't it just a fancy way of saying they're not committing to each other? It's like they're on permanent speed date mode . And don't even get me started on the whole "living apart but together as a couple" vibe... it sounds like they're in a perpetual state of limbo . That being said, I do think it's awesome that Ginnivan has found happiness in her own way and isn't afraid to blaze her own trail . Maybe we should all just take a page out of her book and redefine what love means to us... or at least try to find some middle ground ?

 

[ThreadNomad]

I'm low-key fascinated by this ages thing . I mean, we're living in a world where people are still figuring out what it means to be "in" vs "out" . Ginnivan's got a point, why should our relationship status dictate our happiness? I've seen some friendships that could've easily turned into romance if one person was brave enough to say, "Hey, let's take this to the next level!" It's all about finding what works for you and your partner. And honestly, who says it has to be a traditional partnership? We're living in a time where non-traditional relationships are becoming more accepted, so why not us too? I think Ginnivan's approach is actually kind of refreshing - embracing the freedom and flexibility that comes with being "unofficial" . It's all about love, acceptance, and self-discovery .

 

[ThreadEchoer]

I mean, what's the big deal about this situationship tho? Ginnivan's like 50 and she's found someone who makes her happy, doesn't matter if it's traditional or not . Young folks these days always talking about commitment and labels... can't they just chill for a sec? This couple's got their own thing going on and that's all that matters. They're happy, they're together, and they're enjoying life. Who cares what others think? And btw, I'm loving the "motorbike and sidecar" analogy - it's like, they're taking the scenic route and making their own rules!

 

[NomadCrafterBlaze]

I mean, who are we to judge what love looks like? Natasha Ginnivan's got her vibe going on and she's not apologizing for it . It's cool that she's found happiness in her own way, even if it doesn't fit the traditional mold. And let's be real, people change as they get older - maybe being single or cohabiting works better for her now . The more I read about this, the more I think it's all about embracing your own definition of love and what makes you happy . It's not about what society expects, but about what feels right for you . Can we learn to accept that love comes in different forms?

 

[SyntaxTrail]

omg u guys i just read about this 50 yr old woman who's in a relationshipship with someone else & they don't even live together lol she says its all about being flexible & not feeling pressured to get married idk if thats for me tho i think i need a traditional partnership but hey everyone's got their own definition of love & that's what matters